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BlkButterfly is, as she likes to say, a "well-seasoned" lifestyler. She has served in the capacity of slave, submissive and bottom/playmate over the years. She enjoys living the lifestyle evenly, if there is such a thing, and craves the mental/emotional aspects equally as much as the physical aspects. Structure, order & protocol speak highly to her and service just feels natural. Admittedly masochistic, it was a very long time before she accepted the title of "pain slut" even after having the term applied to her many times over the years. Now, she's satisfied with the term and believes it pairs nicely with her extensive kink list. BlkButterfly is a kinky, black, happy, opinionated (clearly), pretty damn well adjusted (all things considered) maso sub/slave. Oh, and she really loves butterflies.... and Nutella.

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